You Are Not Difficult To Love!

My dear friend,

No article today. I won’t cover a specific topic, or tell you what to do if something happens etc… I won’t give you any examples either. Today, I just have few words I would like you to hear. These come straight from the heart, followed by a few tears…

Don’t you dare chasing anyone!

Don’t you dare chasing anyone for love and affection. Don’t you dare shrinking yourself so that others may like you, or see you in a different way. We’re all meant to shine with our own unique light, so that all those authentic souls may find they way to you.

Those who will actually fight for you and won’t give up on who you are.

Don’t you dare begging anyone to call you, message you, or stay with you. Your purpose on this Earth is not to persuade anyone that you are worthy of love. You got that right the moment you were born, the moment you took your first breath, you were and are worthy of being cherished for who you are.

If someone, for whatever reason can’t or won’t give you the love and care you earned, then there’s no need to chase that affection. If they won’t give it to you willingly, wish them all the best, and let them go.

Now, I need you to see and hear what I’m about to say.

You are enough

You will be hurt. Life will teach you that lesson, do not doubt that for a single moment. You will experience pain of rejection and abandonment. But you will also feel love, kindness, goodness, and that genuine concern that will make your days filled with pure joy.

So don’t you dare chasing for their love. You earned it, just by being you. You earned it the moment you opened your eyes, and allow no one to convince you differently.

You are not difficult to love. You are enough.


I would love to hear from you in the comments below, how are you feeling about the upcoming Holidays? Do they make you feel good, or perhaps lonely? Feel free to share your thoughts, you will be listened here. πŸ™‚

6 thoughts on “You Are Not Difficult To Love!”

  1. Absolutely agree! To dim our own light so that it will agree with another’s expectations is foolish. You may think you are gaining a friend, but a friend with conditions is not a true friend and you’ve lost yourself in the process. It may feel lonely at times to be different, but there is no real reward in pretending to be someone else. Never live a lesser quality life by trying to please people for superficial reasons! We may be different but we are awesome in our own unique way. If someone chooses not to see it, they simply aren’t our people. Look on the edges of the room. We’re the ones holding the wall up. πŸ˜„

  2. As for the holidays, I enjoy my side of the relation’s annual party more- simply because most of us are introverts. We just sit n visit n laugh. No expectations of participating in games, no incorrect judgement of quiet spells. I do appreciate the happy moods and unity of both parties. Just tend to get annoyed, as a realist, with exaggerated excitement.

  3. This whole article is such a beautiful and needed reminder! Thank you for making sure we’re all having peaceful holidays!

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